In this material we will be looking at the nature of anxiety and its association with marriage infidelity and divorce. We'll be discussing the healing of generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety, panic disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and the anxiety accompanying divorce and infidelity traumas.
The Nature of Anxiety Disorders
Anxiety is a multifaceted and powerful emotion that arises from many sources, including the loss of the ability to trust or feel safe, penetrating worries, and (over responsibility) an excessive sense of responsibility, faintness in confidence, shame and guilt. The causation can be modeling after an insecure or anxious parent and biological factors called epigenetics. As trust and confidence diminish, anxiety and fear regularly intensify.
Anxiety mental and emotional illness
Later in adulthood, these conflicts can lead to the development of an anxiety disorder, which can have an extremely damaging impact upon physical and mental health, as well as upon important interpersonal relationships. Anxiety disorders are serious illnesses that can be as devastating as severe physical issues or other medical illnesses.
Anxiety leading to mistrust in relationships
Very frequently, family of origin mistrust, particularly from emotional or physical damages in the father relationship, can subconsciously emerge after being buried for years or even decades. This mistrust can be directed at a completely trustworthy spouse with severely damaging outcomes. The spouse with such a father injury can experience the loss of a feeling of love for his/her spouse and resentment (that is really intended subconsciously for the father but is misdirected).
Origins of Anxiety/Mistrust/Marriage
The most common cause of anxiety in marriage is the result of the loss of trust or a safe feeling at different developmental stages.
People with normal development; develop trust or a safe feeling in life through the establishment of secure attachment relationships first in the home with mother and father, siblings. Then again outside the home with friends, peers, teachers, coaches and dating relationships.
However, many adults have damaged trust by relying disproportionately upon romantic feelings and giving themselves to others who turn out not to be trustworthy in late teens and early adulthood.
In adult life trust or feeling safe can be damaged in numerous ways including by injuries in friendships, courting, work, and by a spouse or partner.
Divorce and Infidelity
Of course what we fear can easily be created in our life...the subconscious is so very powerful!
The Nature of Anxiety Disorders
Anxiety is a multifaceted and powerful emotion that arises from many sources, including the loss of the ability to trust or feel safe, penetrating worries, and (over responsibility) an excessive sense of responsibility, faintness in confidence, shame and guilt. The causation can be modeling after an insecure or anxious parent and biological factors called epigenetics. As trust and confidence diminish, anxiety and fear regularly intensify.
Anxiety mental and emotional illness
Later in adulthood, these conflicts can lead to the development of an anxiety disorder, which can have an extremely damaging impact upon physical and mental health, as well as upon important interpersonal relationships. Anxiety disorders are serious illnesses that can be as devastating as severe physical issues or other medical illnesses.
Anxiety leading to mistrust in relationships
Very frequently, family of origin mistrust, particularly from emotional or physical damages in the father relationship, can subconsciously emerge after being buried for years or even decades. This mistrust can be directed at a completely trustworthy spouse with severely damaging outcomes. The spouse with such a father injury can experience the loss of a feeling of love for his/her spouse and resentment (that is really intended subconsciously for the father but is misdirected).
Origins of Anxiety/Mistrust/Marriage
The most common cause of anxiety in marriage is the result of the loss of trust or a safe feeling at different developmental stages.
People with normal development; develop trust or a safe feeling in life through the establishment of secure attachment relationships first in the home with mother and father, siblings. Then again outside the home with friends, peers, teachers, coaches and dating relationships.
However, many adults have damaged trust by relying disproportionately upon romantic feelings and giving themselves to others who turn out not to be trustworthy in late teens and early adulthood.
In adult life trust or feeling safe can be damaged in numerous ways including by injuries in friendships, courting, work, and by a spouse or partner.
Divorce and Infidelity
Of course what we fear can easily be created in our life...the subconscious is so very powerful!
Cultural factors also are contributing to damaging trust and growing in anxiety.
Examples:
For numerous reasons most of us enter our adult lives (and then our marriages) with these trust issues and "wounds." Healing these wounds requires an individual psychotherapy method that works on arrested emotional development...and only after individual therapy can marriage counseling be affective.
Examples:
- The collapse of the nuclear family
- Divorce
- Day care
- People being treated as objects
- The growth of narcissism in the culture
- Single parenthood
- The growing hostility
- Fantasy, lack of morality and marriage in the media
- Poor school systems etc.
- Infidelity
For numerous reasons most of us enter our adult lives (and then our marriages) with these trust issues and "wounds." Healing these wounds requires an individual psychotherapy method that works on arrested emotional development...and only after individual therapy can marriage counseling be affective.
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How Marriage Counseling Can Bring About Divorce.
Marriage Counseling Fails Many...
For the treatment method I recommend click here:
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